Hi guys, have you had a good week ? here in Europe it has been sunshine the entire week so i sure had a great daygame week :)
One thing that i enjoy a lot during spring and summer is daygame, i love nightclubs to but its something about daygame that makes it more fun so in this article i am going to teach you some tips about meeting girls during the day.
Having the right mindset
The number one thing you have to do before even thinking about pick-up is to have the right mindset and with that i mean a fun and playful mindset. If you have been working all day you wont feel that playful so it is going to be hard to do your approaches fun, what you are going to do is warming up before going up to the really hot girl and you can do this by being more social everyday for example when you buy something you just don't leave, you talk a little bit and banter with them, this will make your mindset and state very playful and fun if you talk in a playful way with people throughout the day so that when you see that girl it will be very easy to just have fun with her.
Approaching direct
It is possible to talk to girls in a indirect way during the day but it is not that effective so when you approach direct it will be more powerful and it will show her that you have a lot of confidence and from there you can just be playful and talking for a little bit and then take the number or go on a instant date which is more fun for you and her. If you don't know the best way to be direct i am going to teach you a little about things you can say but the goal is to be honest because its more powerful, so what you can say is for example,- Hi, i just saw you and i really love you style..or you can just say- Hi, i just saw you and i think you are really cute..whats your name ? these are the 2 things i say but you can say whatever you want as long as your playful and honest about it.
Instant dating
Now you know the basics but one thing i really enjoy is to take a girl i meet outside to a cafe or maybe even to a park, why i enjoy this is because it gives you a chance to get to know her a little bit more and sometimes when it is nice outside or you live near the place you and the girl can have some fun the same day, and that will probably happen if you go out there and meet girl.
So you are probably wondering how to do this, well its pretty easy because if you live in a city there will be many coffee places near the place you meet the girl and what you just do then is telling her that you really want a coffee and then just say come join me for 10 min, you do this if you have talked to her for a bit on the street and shes pretty comfortable with you.
So guys just go out there and meet these girls and have fun with it, i´m sure going to have fun ;)
please comment if you have anything to add on this article.
Realseduction
Monday, April 25, 2011
Sunday, April 17, 2011
How To Have Fun Meeting Girls
Sometimes meeting new people is hard and feels like work, all the rejection and approaching is not always fun right ? well it doesn't have to be like that, you can have a lot of fun despite all the rejections and the way to do this is to always going to talk to women where your only goal is to be self-amused.
When you to this you will have a lot of fun and you will come across as non-needy so she will even be more attracted to you just because of that, i was inspired to write this post when i saw a video of some guys just doing stuff that was amusing to them and they got a lot of attraction and when they got rejected it was just fun for them :)
Here is the video and remember just have fun with it when you are out there just like these guys..
When you to this you will have a lot of fun and you will come across as non-needy so she will even be more attracted to you just because of that, i was inspired to write this post when i saw a video of some guys just doing stuff that was amusing to them and they got a lot of attraction and when they got rejected it was just fun for them :)
Here is the video and remember just have fun with it when you are out there just like these guys..
Thursday, April 14, 2011
Our Deepest Fear...
Are you living the life of your dreams ? imagine having a life you can be proud about, imagine waking up every morning with a smile on your face. This is not impossible for anyone but the reason your not living your life the way you want is because of fears but the truth is you don't need to be like that, everybody have what it takes to achieve their dreams but you have to be relentless, show everybody how much you want it and you will achieve whatever your want .
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
5 Ways To Get a Sexy Girlfriend
There is many ways to meet new girls but the most ways that you probably do don't work that good if you want a really sexy girlfriend with a great personality.
Before i give you the 5 ways i just wanna tell you that it isn't gonna be easy, you will have to challenge yourself a lot but i promise you, when you are laying in the bed with that girl or just even walking down the street with her you will be thankful that you started to do these thing.
Improving Your Fashion.
This one is pretty important if you never think about your fashion, what you wanna do is to think about what type of girl you really want and then think about what style she would like in a boyfriend.
This is important but don't become all about fashion because your personality is what she really gets attracted to, this is just so that her first impression of you is alright, for example if you want a model-type girlfriend then you should learn a little more about fashion, think about how a guy she gets attracted to dresses and then do that.
Start Going Out Every Week.
This is really important if you don't already do this, maybe its not the best way for finding a girlfriend but there will always be a girl in the club that wants a relationship but even if they don't you just can have fun and create a lifestyle with many girls to choose from so that when you find a girl you like you wont be needy to start a relationship and this will make you more attractive and she will probably ask you to begin a relationship with her.
Start meeting girls in the daytime.
This is one of my favorite ways to meet a beautiful girl with great personality, in the daytime most girls don't get approached by guys because most guys are to scared to do that but if you just punch trough that fear you will see how many great girls there is in the daytime and most of them are sober so there will be no bullshit. The way you meet them is pretty simple, you just walk up in relaxed way and tell her why you approached, just be direct and then have fun with her until you take the number or go to the nearby coffeehouse for a 10 min drink if she has the time.
Become The Sexy Boyfriend.
If you want a sexy girlfriend then you will have to become a sexy boyfriend, don't believe you can be a loser and get you dream girl...of course its not impossible but make it a win-win relationship by starting to working on your health, she will like it but most importantly YOU will like it.
Start living a attractive lifestyle you are prod of, if you hate your job then start changing that by asking yourself what you want, having goals in life is very attractive so start thinking about that because if you get the girl of your dreams you will not be able to keep her if you hate you life so improve yourself and become a man she can be with, become the boyfriend that makes her friends jealous.
Have Fun When Meeting New Girls.
Many times when you want a girlfriend you think that the dating and meeting people is boring or like work but it is very important to have fun with the dating part to because if you are not having fun dating the girls will notice that and think you gonna be like that in a relationship to and i don't think any girl like to have a boring boyfriend so guys go out there and just have fun on the way to meeting girls and you will soon find a great sexy girlfriend :)
please comment if you have anything to add on this article.
Before i give you the 5 ways i just wanna tell you that it isn't gonna be easy, you will have to challenge yourself a lot but i promise you, when you are laying in the bed with that girl or just even walking down the street with her you will be thankful that you started to do these thing.
Improving Your Fashion.
This one is pretty important if you never think about your fashion, what you wanna do is to think about what type of girl you really want and then think about what style she would like in a boyfriend.
This is important but don't become all about fashion because your personality is what she really gets attracted to, this is just so that her first impression of you is alright, for example if you want a model-type girlfriend then you should learn a little more about fashion, think about how a guy she gets attracted to dresses and then do that.
Start Going Out Every Week.
This is really important if you don't already do this, maybe its not the best way for finding a girlfriend but there will always be a girl in the club that wants a relationship but even if they don't you just can have fun and create a lifestyle with many girls to choose from so that when you find a girl you like you wont be needy to start a relationship and this will make you more attractive and she will probably ask you to begin a relationship with her.
Start meeting girls in the daytime.
This is one of my favorite ways to meet a beautiful girl with great personality, in the daytime most girls don't get approached by guys because most guys are to scared to do that but if you just punch trough that fear you will see how many great girls there is in the daytime and most of them are sober so there will be no bullshit. The way you meet them is pretty simple, you just walk up in relaxed way and tell her why you approached, just be direct and then have fun with her until you take the number or go to the nearby coffeehouse for a 10 min drink if she has the time.
Become The Sexy Boyfriend.
If you want a sexy girlfriend then you will have to become a sexy boyfriend, don't believe you can be a loser and get you dream girl...of course its not impossible but make it a win-win relationship by starting to working on your health, she will like it but most importantly YOU will like it.
Start living a attractive lifestyle you are prod of, if you hate your job then start changing that by asking yourself what you want, having goals in life is very attractive so start thinking about that because if you get the girl of your dreams you will not be able to keep her if you hate you life so improve yourself and become a man she can be with, become the boyfriend that makes her friends jealous.
Have Fun When Meeting New Girls.
Many times when you want a girlfriend you think that the dating and meeting people is boring or like work but it is very important to have fun with the dating part to because if you are not having fun dating the girls will notice that and think you gonna be like that in a relationship to and i don't think any girl like to have a boring boyfriend so guys go out there and just have fun on the way to meeting girls and you will soon find a great sexy girlfriend :)
please comment if you have anything to add on this article.
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
Do You Make These Mistakes In Dating ?
One of the most important things to do in your dating life to become more successful is to be aware of the mistakes you make in order to fix them and you have to be really honest with yourself.
There is so many thing that most people do wrong in dating these days but if you just take time and think about what you are doing and why it don't work you are one step closer to the dating life of your dreams.
I remember that one of the first things that made me a lot more successful in dating was realizing what i was doing wrong and then taking action to fix that. Most guys that are out there in the clubs to thing that can be fixed really easy only if they knew about it so in this article i am going to list out the 5 things most guy do but shouldn't be doing.
Going out without any preparation for sex.
I remember when i went out to clubs and bars before learning anything about dating and i didn't prepare myself for sex, for example trimming my body hair.
This is really important to do because if you don't and end up going home with a girl you like the main hindrance for sex is you knowing that you didn't groom your body so if you want to be successful with dating start with the most simple thing, groom you body before you go out.
Going out with lame and boring clothes.
This is a very important to fix because if you look around in a club the most unsuccessful guys tend to have to the same clothes and girls know this, even if you are the most attractive man but your fashion sucks and you look like a loser, she will think you are just like all the other boring losers that had the same fashion as you and this will make it very hard for you in the beginning even if you are the most confident and cool guy in the club. You can fix this problem easy by just thinking about how a confident guy dresses, make up you own cool style and you can use the stereotypes to your advantage by just looking like a guy who gets laid for example a nightclub host, but also remember to give it your own style.
Not talking loud enough.
This is something many guys have problem with, the thing is that when you are in a nightclub with loud music and you openings are very weak with low voice tonality it doesn't matter if you have the best line in the world the girl is seeing you as a weak man so she is going to reject you very fast.
what you wanna do is to always have a high alpha voice tonality when you are out in clubs and bars in the opening, always do it in a fun and positive way or you will come across as a arrogant asshole.
So guys, just start speaking in a more dominant tone in the open and you will not be rejected as much, probably never on the first 10 sec anyway.
Not being the leader.
This is very important to start thinking about because most of the guys out there don't lead, they let the woman lead and in dating and relationships most women don't want to lead all the time, they what you to lead but if you don't they will lead and that's really bad for you beacuse her attraction for you will drop really fast if you don't lead.
The reason why you need to be leading is beacuse often times the girl wont lead to sex, mostly beacuse the social programming they grew up with that told her not to be a slut so i her mind its really bad and shes being a slut if she leads towards sex which is not true, but sometimes there will be girls that don't care about this and do all the work for you but don't wait for that because its very rare, start leading instead and you will see results very fast.
Don't physically escalating enough.
This is by far the number one think you should fix if you want the dating life of your dreams.
Most guys tent to be very afraid of touching the girl in the beginning and then after maybe ten minutes or even sometimes before the kiss they start touching the girl and this is very uncomfortable for the girl and its not even fun for you so what you wanna to for the rest of you life is to start being a touchy guy in the club and remember don't do it in a creepy way, start in a light way with a handshake and maybe silly games like thumb wrestling. When you do this from the start and make it more sexual and playful as time passes she will later feel much more comfortable when you go for the kiss or anything sexual.
Haha don't be as aggressive in the beginning as rampage, just have fun with it and do that later..without any clothes ;)
please comment if you have anything to add on this topic.
There is so many thing that most people do wrong in dating these days but if you just take time and think about what you are doing and why it don't work you are one step closer to the dating life of your dreams.
I remember that one of the first things that made me a lot more successful in dating was realizing what i was doing wrong and then taking action to fix that. Most guys that are out there in the clubs to thing that can be fixed really easy only if they knew about it so in this article i am going to list out the 5 things most guy do but shouldn't be doing.
Going out without any preparation for sex.
I remember when i went out to clubs and bars before learning anything about dating and i didn't prepare myself for sex, for example trimming my body hair.
This is really important to do because if you don't and end up going home with a girl you like the main hindrance for sex is you knowing that you didn't groom your body so if you want to be successful with dating start with the most simple thing, groom you body before you go out.
Going out with lame and boring clothes.
This is a very important to fix because if you look around in a club the most unsuccessful guys tend to have to the same clothes and girls know this, even if you are the most attractive man but your fashion sucks and you look like a loser, she will think you are just like all the other boring losers that had the same fashion as you and this will make it very hard for you in the beginning even if you are the most confident and cool guy in the club. You can fix this problem easy by just thinking about how a confident guy dresses, make up you own cool style and you can use the stereotypes to your advantage by just looking like a guy who gets laid for example a nightclub host, but also remember to give it your own style.
Not talking loud enough.
This is something many guys have problem with, the thing is that when you are in a nightclub with loud music and you openings are very weak with low voice tonality it doesn't matter if you have the best line in the world the girl is seeing you as a weak man so she is going to reject you very fast.
what you wanna do is to always have a high alpha voice tonality when you are out in clubs and bars in the opening, always do it in a fun and positive way or you will come across as a arrogant asshole.
So guys, just start speaking in a more dominant tone in the open and you will not be rejected as much, probably never on the first 10 sec anyway.
Not being the leader.
This is very important to start thinking about because most of the guys out there don't lead, they let the woman lead and in dating and relationships most women don't want to lead all the time, they what you to lead but if you don't they will lead and that's really bad for you beacuse her attraction for you will drop really fast if you don't lead.
The reason why you need to be leading is beacuse often times the girl wont lead to sex, mostly beacuse the social programming they grew up with that told her not to be a slut so i her mind its really bad and shes being a slut if she leads towards sex which is not true, but sometimes there will be girls that don't care about this and do all the work for you but don't wait for that because its very rare, start leading instead and you will see results very fast.
Don't physically escalating enough.
This is by far the number one think you should fix if you want the dating life of your dreams.
Most guys tent to be very afraid of touching the girl in the beginning and then after maybe ten minutes or even sometimes before the kiss they start touching the girl and this is very uncomfortable for the girl and its not even fun for you so what you wanna to for the rest of you life is to start being a touchy guy in the club and remember don't do it in a creepy way, start in a light way with a handshake and maybe silly games like thumb wrestling. When you do this from the start and make it more sexual and playful as time passes she will later feel much more comfortable when you go for the kiss or anything sexual.
Haha don't be as aggressive in the beginning as rampage, just have fun with it and do that later..without any clothes ;)
please comment if you have anything to add on this topic.
Sunday, April 10, 2011
Getting more dates just by being physical
The number 1 thing you could be doing every time you talk to a girl you like in the club or wherever is being physical, and i don't mean in a creepy way..just be playful and i promise you she will start to touch you, A LOT.
It has happened so many times when i meet girls where the only reason i was getting anywhere was because i was physical and at the same time playful about it, you need to have fun with it like for example doing a hip bump on a girl in the club in a playful way is such a good start for you're escalation towards the kiss and more.
When you touch the girl it will build some kind of attraction and comfort if you are PLAYFUL about it, this has happen with every girl i have been with and when i think about it, the biggest reason they where attracted was beacuse i was playfully physical with them so guys start to be physical and have FUN.
Good luck guys
please comment if you have anything to add on this topic.
It has happened so many times when i meet girls where the only reason i was getting anywhere was because i was physical and at the same time playful about it, you need to have fun with it like for example doing a hip bump on a girl in the club in a playful way is such a good start for you're escalation towards the kiss and more.
When you touch the girl it will build some kind of attraction and comfort if you are PLAYFUL about it, this has happen with every girl i have been with and when i think about it, the biggest reason they where attracted was beacuse i was playfully physical with them so guys start to be physical and have FUN.
- Hugging
- Holding hands
- Play fight with them
- Pick them up on your back, THIS IS A GREAT ONE GUYS !
- Hip bumping
- Dancing
- Tum wrestling
Good luck guys
please comment if you have anything to add on this topic.
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